TALES FROM THE LOOP by Cathy D. Slaght
All of us have our “loop”-
In my case, I married a series of alcoholics.
(The women on my mother’s side of the family all married alcoholics-generation after generation- so she and I fell right into place. Depression also ran rampant. My mother suffered from severe depression all her life.)
This created somewhat of a hellish home life, so I escaped as soon as possible- via marriage- and moved to Florida.
Even though I thought I was getting away, I had married right into the loop.
After 7 years, the marriage failed.
It was right after this first divorce that a student (I was a teacher at the time) gave me a book entitled “I Deserve Love” by Sondra Ray.
She said she’d purchased it for a book report but it was weird and she didn’t want her parents to see it.
It was about affirmations.
This was the 70s- so affirmations sounded “crazy”- but I read it- I still read just about anything - and started writing, 10 x each morning, first thing:
“I, Cathy, am now good enough to be loved”.
(This is what the book suggested.)
And it was as if I had found the holy grail.
These affirmations WORKED.
No matter what I wrote, it seemed to manifest.
So, a year and a half later I married again.
Another divorce, 5 years later.
“Never again”, I said.
As one therapist had explained, my “picker” was broken.
I seldom even dated.
But 13 years later I met what I thought was my “soul mate” at a wedding, and tried one more time.
Obviously I was an idiot when it came to mate selection.
This time the abuse wasn’t just emotional – so I left the marriage after 3 months.
Then, 5 years later, my health began to fail.
I went through all of my money, got fat, was profoundly depressed, and, finally, received a grim diagnosis.
In fact, by all accounts I’m supposed to be dead.
But consider Law #4, The Law of Polarity.
“Everything is dual. Everything has an opposite.”
Each situation, no matter how much of a crisis or humiliation, offers a benefit, if you will accept it.
In the loop…
Marriage #1 got me to Florida- and also, through the synchronicity of getting the book on affirmations, sparked an interest in “how they worked” which led to the germination of curiosity about our unseen world.
Marriage #2 brought my daughter, the love of my life.
Marriage #3 made me mean as hell.
Seriously- I had a major revelation-
All my life I’d tried to make other people happy. Starting with my mother- then 3 abusive husbands-
ENOUGH I said. People were responsible for their own happiness.
As my daughter still likes to say “People used to push you around, but after * (husband #3) NOBODY pushes you around.”
So we come to the illness-
That’s what introduced me to quantum software and a deeper passion to learn about energy and how things REALLY work.
Now it’s been 17+ years of increasing joy and fulfillment.
SO, I ask you-
What is YOUR loop?
Have you studied or applied any “new”, or “unorthodox” approaches to life- like a study of how our energy systems really operates-
- so you can step out of it?
Have you acknowledged the Law of Polarity – that everything has its opposite?
Even with failure after failure, there are messages coming in- from the unseen world-
- attempting to lead you to what you REALLY are
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